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HOW TO AVOID BESTIES RELATIONSHIP?
WHY PEOPLE DON'T WANT TO BE WITH YOU?
WHY HAS HE STOP LIKING YOUR PHOTOS?
OUR LIVES ARE DIFFERENT FROM EACH OTHER
WHAT ARE BESTIES?
NO FATE WITH GUYS?
WHAT ABOUT ME?
WHY ARE FEMALES MORE FAKE?
HOW TO BE STRONG ON YOUR OWN?
WHY CLOSE FRIENDS NEVER RUN AWAY?
PASSION LIST
WHERE TO FIND GUYS?
COUPLE WHO HAVE GREEN HAT BUT STILL LOVE EACH OTHER
GROUP TRICKS
DO YOU HAVE GUYS?
WHAT IS THE MEANING OF FITTING IN?

HOW TO AVOID BESTIES RELATIONSHIP?

If you realized he has a close female friend, it is advisable to be his friend first. Have you ever wondered, why is he still single around her? Yes, they may be together if no one accept them in the end. To find a proper relationship, find someone who is a loner. A loner may need more love, as they are more suitable to be in marriage. Besties are peple who only have half their person. They need another half with love, so this way means sharing. So unless you are able to accept a 2nd partner, why are you still complaining?

Besties are people who is not supposed to get married. However, they are more lonely because they feel something is lacking in life and that's love. Besties can play openly providing they remain single. Can you still play after married? If his bestie is attached, you may give him a chance. If his bestie is still single, learn to be his bestie too so that he will not feel the pressure as he may not be ready for marriage. Love is so selfish we always see one man and one woman, instead of a football team.

By avoiding them, he has to deal with her group of guys. While, you don't need to deal with her and when one is ready, he will eventually give you the less.

WHY PEOPLE DON'T WANT TO BE WITH YOU?

High standards. They are the come and go types because they all have their own lives to live and until they found the one they love, love may wins all of them. If you are stuck between two females, you still have to pick one to the wedding ceremony. If you are not ready for marriage, waiting is the best option. If you are ready for marriage, your fate will eventually comes by. Love is waiting patiently for them. People don't want to be with you, because they may want their privacy. They don't like groups or they just prefer to live in their own world.

Is okay if you don't know many people. You can roam freely, and most of all, you set them free. If you lost them, perhaps they are not meant to be. They are not tie to you, because there is no promise made. Most importantly, learn to let go in life is the key to being yourself. While you learn to let go, you can play with lesser hurt in life especially while single.

WILL RELATIVES ASK YOU FOR HELP IN THE FUTURE?

Do you have relatives who like to go travelling, despite working for people? Do you have relatives, who doesn't need you now? But in the future they may need you. People are like ignoring you, until they may need your help in the future. Working for people will forever be unsafe, because the position is not fully yours. People are selfish, fun times enjoy themselves. Hard times, expect you to be in. Relatives, may ask you for help if they lost their rice bowls one day. Will you help them is the question. You can help them with small amount, but keep your money tightly. Because, if you help them, who will help you?

We are those types, who don't have anything to do with them. You can say that, we live our own lives, and vice versa. Even New Year or special occasions, we don't ever meet. It is through parents' connection, we get to meet senior relatives. As the young generations are very proud, it is wiser not to stay so close to them. In this manner, we live in peace and harmony. In photos, everyone is a relative. But, in dark times, will it still be the same group of people?

WHY HAS HE STOP LIKING YOUR PHOTOS?

Because you found a boyfriend. The only time a person rarely like your photos, could be the time you are attached to another. He could be jealous, or because you are as fake as him. Guys are very proud because their egos need to be protected. Just like an easy female will always want a guy to make the move on her.

After all, she is only accompany you until she met her other half. If you are not friends with her other half, she is only treating you as a companionship. Real friends, will also be friends with their partner. Why you don't have feelings for her is due to lack of securities. Why other guy want her is because, he has other females and he needs to balance the relationship with her. While she have more, he can always stray anytime, anywhere so her relationship may not be a faithful one. Bad can be with bad and good can be with good. Standards need to be the same in order to last with each other. As long as they both agreed or forgive, they can still get married despite other females and males around.

HOW TO FIND ONE LIKE US?

Start searching them in proper places. Must be willing to work from home. Must be peaceful, and especially shy to guys. Even if they have no friends, you are really lucky in this aspect. Because, without friends has proven their security and maturity. as we get older, we will always prefer lesser because, in the end, everybody go without a group of people. If she is into a shut relationship, you cannot be open. Rarely, you see a person's eyes with one open and close, or got anybody sleep with their eyes open? We are those types, who is more quiet, enjoy being with seniors and may not have a large group of people type. In this manner, you both will not argue over anyone.

If you still want to play, stick with more. If you want to be in a marriage, find the less. Why are people still in a relationship yet cannot be alone, because they want love. This has proven their insecurities and this is called open relationship. Open can last with open, and shut can last with shut. Hope you can find a really good one, cheers.

OUR LIVES ARE DIFFERENT FROM EACH OTHER

Some are peaceful, some are not. Some are easy, some are not. Some are greedy, some are not. Some have many, some have less. Some are players and some are marriage materials. People have different mentalities, not everybody share the same values as you. I can do it, doesn't mean those females can or vice versa. As long as you don't hurt people just to satisfy your cravings. In life, we are born to work. Can't earn much, but at least have your own hobby. The feeling of earning yourself, and spending yourself is better than getting things from people. One day, they can always take back or ask you to pay money.

God gave us the least, to see people in a correct manner. If you have a lot, you don't even know if they are real or fake and the worse is that you became fake yourself just to be the same like everybody. Are you really happy when you can't even be yourself? In life, learn to walk our own roads because, people will eventually get tired of each other.

Because, I don't have females luck to obtain you, I can crave you secretly for as long as I am still alive. God gave me male's luck so that guys are more attracted to me, put your trust in him and he shall give you the best.

24.1.23

WHAT ARE BESTIES?

Besties are original fate. But because they have no feelings for each other, they ended up having someone else. This way, it is a triangle. People are already complaining over the internet about besties issues. If he has a bestie, learn to be his friend first. From there, get use to her first and see if you allow them to go out together without your absence. If you don't allow, high chance you are into shut relationship. Shut relationship means one man and one woman feelings. Love has two types. Open and shut. If he is still single with her around, that's because he is waiting for fate. However, he is open himself so he has to go with open. Karma, love and fate have eyes that's why many people already got hurt.

Besties have a chance to become a future couple. Otherwise, the female have a higher chance to find the same type of guy as you due to her high standards. Besties are not ordinary especially they hang out often. So, if you are not truly serious with him yet, you can learn to play along. Female besties are more greedy because they want both companionship and love. If a female have 10 besties, those 10 besties can also play with other females. Do you really think 10 of them stay faithful to her? Sadly, it is the sharing society now. Share or not, is one personal choice as long as you don't be too over.

NO FATE WITH GUYS?

It is okay if you have no fate with them. Think about those who have fate with them but ended up losing their lives for it. Cases such as Felicia Teo(SINGAPORE), Hello Kitty murder(HONG KONG) and Junko Furuta(JAPAN) (All links to male killers) Not every females and males are the same. Some is good, some isn't. Why some females can have many, is because they make the move. Why some females don't have is because they just want to lead a peaceful life, or is not good with people type. Eventually, circles are more than likely just companionship. In life, we don't need to have a ton and make yourself so unhappy. It is important to be with those you feel comfortable with and slowly get to know them as long as we are still alive.

Guys in my personal opinion is business related. We can do business with each other and I am thankful for their support. Other personal days, we have our own lives to live. Why they come and go too is because they are single. Fate have two types. One type is lovers and another is destined to be with you. Besties are very close to the relationship life, which explains their frequent meet ups, photos and chats. If a female have 10 besties, she still needs to pick one to the wedding ceremony. Fate is very fair, fate gives you less, but will give you the best. Fate gives you more, so you will clear the mess. Always remember that, single is always free but once attached, means commitment.

WHAT ABOUT ME?

I am not interested in your wealth, your looks. I am more interested in your health, and the number of your people. Can you protect me is the question. Love and things are different but people and things are the same, in my personal opinion. Many people are lacking securities, but I will show you the difference. Love is whole heartedly because we only have one biological dad and mom. Things, will spoil easily and can always replace to new one. People may not be a property yet because they still have the freedom to be with who they want, until they meet their one true love. They may either change or continue their old ways. Things are your property because they need your permission to touch it or it will be like stealing. If you just take a thing in the shopping mall without getting paid, will the cops be coming after you?

I love you, is not because you are rich or handsome. Is because of your character. My dad is a phd doctor, he has his own company and knows how to save money as well. I am well fed under them to the point that I don't have to chase after guys. My life is free without them but I got stalked in real life. However, that boy didn't make the move, so I figured he is only curious. Until I met my husband at work, he make the move and we are finally together. I downgraded from condo to hdb, but is okay. As long as I have a roof over my head. And when he is working, I always wait for him. He gives me enough securities while I provide trust and that's how we only have each other. My husband don't like angry face, don't like branded and don't like women who always spend money. I have this habit of laughing to sleep, husband is already used to my patterns. I am the most happiest female without having to face politics and fakeness. I seldom sneeze either. I can go 1 week without sneezing. Is there something wrong with my nose?

Relationship is not about having companies just because you are bored. It is about having to wait for the one you love to prolong a relationship, because not everybody like to mix around. Relationship also means to go in groups or trios or even be honest, because if you truly love them, you will bring them around. I wish you successful in finding a good partner, and please don't think every females are the same, cheers. PS: I ONLY HAVE ONE HUSBAND ^_^ Can you help me get rid of guys phobia???? PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE

WHY ARE FEMALES MORE FAKE?

Greedy and impaitence. Females can accompany you, but they won't accompany you for long. Because one day, she will still get married. While she is single, nobody will talk. While she is married, she will give people a chance to gossip. Males can usually see whether if their besties have a good boyfriend. Because, they know each other inside out and because of the more they shared. If you have zero of them, you will catch zero of them and if you have a lot of them, you will have a lot of them. If love is unbalance, cheating will be high. Females are fake because they want branded, attention and the more they have, the more they can show off.

Real friends won't mind your true apperance. Real friends won't show off, and most importantly, they will make you feel like yourself from head to toe. However, in this society, it is all about comparing, and talks.

True female, will introduce their partner to you. If you can click with her partner, all wells end wells. If you can't click with her partner, at least she did her job. Fake female, will let you find out yourself and will make you feel even more jealous. If you are real, he will be real. If you are fake, he will be fake. But how many people are real now?

HOW TO BE STRONG ON YOUR OWN?

There is nothing wrong with being strong on your own. Being strong on your own means you don't have to see the colors in people or face their fakeness. Strong means, you learn to take care of yourself and loved ones. Focusing on your work and pets. If you don't need people type, consider marriage. Marriage means to be alone or you will need compromise. If family can be small, so can be wedding. Huge weddings are man made and whether they can last also depends on their fate.

My husband is a loner. Every new year, he will always spend time with himself by walking outside, eating alone or look at his phone. He is always avoiding relatives who likes to brag, show off, and standards are never the same. They can also look down on us because they earn more. Relatives and friends are basically the same. Got money, talk. No money, scram.

If you are happy, every day is a new year even when there is no one by your side. Thank God, thank Jesus, and thank heaven for giving me this present. Amen.

19.1.23

WHY CLOSE FRIENDS NEVER RUN AWAY?

Close friends are best known for sharing so they will not run away. A boy and girl is close together, but because she has a ton of males, which allows him to start playing with other females or attracted to other females. Their fate could already be inside, which is the one who shares mutual friends with each other. Because of high standards, they will just keep sharing. Run away means not taking responsibilities on the girl. Why are they with each other is due to loneliness. But one day, when they each found a different partner, they will only increase loneliness.

If their partner is not the open minded kind, it will be hard for them to connect with each other. If their partner is the open minded kind, playing with others behind their backs is high. People are complicated to the point that they don't even know what they want.

When it comes to borrowing money, when it comes to favours, people are really scare. That's why, they may look happy with each other, we don't know their problems behind close doors.

Why female besties can find her fate? Because, her standards are the same as the guy. That being said, that guy have ton of females are high. Why other males are willing to give her presents? She sweet talk or bootlicking them, she is their chatting buddy and one day she will still choose one. So other males still lose out to one. In life, your circles are never real until you meet with disasters. Dramas are always interesting, to show you that people are really hard to get along.

PASSION LIST

Don't like working for people? Turn passions into business. In life, we are born to work. As much as we hate working, we still need to feed ourselves.

1.) Art (Instagram have many artists you can learn from, that's why art is very common that even relatives can be doing the same thing)

2.) Music(If you are into music, you can also convert it to teaching kids, or adults. Some people may not like groups, you can try to give 1 to 1 a chance)

3.) Flowers&Plants(If you are interested in botanical, flowers and plants are suitable for you. Take up a course, and slowly build up your interest)

4.) Design such as web/graphics, interior or even fashion(Courses will always lead you to career path. So it is ok to invest your time in studying)

5.) Manicure or cooking (They are more time consuming so if you have the paitence, you are on the right track)

Passions may not earn as much as working for people. But it is something more enjoyable as compared to other people's business.

18.1.23

WHERE TO FIND GUYS?

I will teach you a few tricks where to get them, and how to be their friends. Providing, you are able to accept rejections. Guys circles are not natural. Females took the chances to step out of their comfort zones and find them. Why some of them can last, is due to fate. They are either fated to be with each other or they will just come and go. If they are fated but still not together, that means they will share.

WORK

If you are looking for a life long partner, start from work places. Your prince charming may not appear in one day. So you have to keep working or try to at least stay at the same place for a year or more, remember that paitence will pay your work.

COURSES

Step out of your comfort zone to attend a favourite course. Through there, you can see guys of different types and ages. If they don't make the move, you will.

VOLUNTEERING

You can do good deeds by volunteering your near by community. You will be put to groups and can start to introducing yourself. Proper places will let you find a more proper and suitable partner.

GYMS OR COFFEE SHOPS

You can go to gyms or coffee shops. Gyms have more guys, you can start by asking them a question, and remember to leave if you feel like he is not interested anymore. Sometimes coffee shop guys may start a small chat with you, if they find you cute.

SPORTS OR PROPERTIES

Join sports with more guys in it and if you are into properties, you can search for an agent to help you. Through there, they may be able to guide a newbie like you, and you both can slowly connect with each other.

STUDIES OR PASSIONS

Need a tutor? Search them online, but becareful because not everybody is your friend

To be with each other isn't based on your apperance or one day, you will see their tails. Everyday at home sure don't have. Don't be dissapointed if cannot click, just re find them again because life is asking you to keep trying. Why they can click? They are still the come and go types. So apparently, they are still searching for their own, and one day, their partner needs to accept their people. If you don't have a group of guys yet, the most luckiest one could be your future partner. Otherwise, why they still want to divorce and not keep two partners? Hope this helps you, cheers.

17.1.23

COUPLE WHO HAVE GREEN HAT BUT STILL LOVE EACH OTHER

When a person cheats, you can only forgive but not forget. Yes, couple can still be with each other despite their wrong doings. It is really hard to stay faithful but easy to fall into temptations. Why are they still together? Because their hearts are still together. However, if they keep cheating and are still together, they are only deceiving themselves. One day, another party will hurt their relationship. Relationships are not always smooth sailing, that's why couple must go through ups and downs together.

A lot of people don't have securities anymore. A true relationship is based on communication and trust and a true relationship only need one. Because one can be your everything. If he really loves you, he will find a job to keep you secure and you will have the less to protect him. A man is just like a woman who want to be loved, protected and care for. The truth fact is that men are proud when his woman have less, while women are proud to have more of them.

GROUP TRICKS

If you are going to enroll in a school and is not good with people type, I encourage you to enroll to an individual course. Do self studying first for at least a year and be familiar with the topics you are going to take, before you go solo. If you are not good with team, you can go for 1 to 1. Group tricks are people who don't like you, thus you may not be able to fit in their category, allowing other parties to take over your seat.

School, work and love will always have politics as long as you have to deal with people. Because, there are many people who is still waiting for your position that you have to be mindful of yours. Once you are strong on your own, you will always feel like the king of the world. Fake people will make you feel more lonely. Example. A boy and a girl is very close together. One day, she will find another partner to fill her other half. That boy will be left without a status because another boy will take over his role and unless they are willing to share, they will find no peace in the relationship. Usually, a female will not wait for you because they are more impatient due to the pregnancy and age limit. If you are not fast enough, another guy may want her.

Why crowd always have problems is because it is really hard to please each other. Groups and scores are the same. It may not be 100 upon 100, but take it as a learning experience.

DO YOU HAVE GUYS?

I am a female with the least unlike those with more. I live a very peaceful life since young, and have never bother guys before. To me, relatives and guys are supposed to be far. In this manner, there are no conflicts and issues with them. I know guys are attracted to me but they will still come and go. In my life dictionary, loved ones and work is always number one. I wasn't allow to work outside so I compromise by staying home.

I grew up without dramas and politics except sibling fight(and he is a guy!) and one toxic relationship. I have choosen to get away from them and now, I am one of the very few happy lady on earth. I got sick and tested negative all the way(Covid don't like me?_?) because I am those type who is not very sociable with people. So, I decided to open websites to express my feelings.

My life is now peaceful, surrounding with my loved ones and work. In life, it is to learn how to be contented and appreciate those around you. To me, love is always first, while expensive things can be last.

WHAT IS THE MEANING OF FITTING IN?

Fit in means to be the same as everybody. Fit in means peace and harmony and fit in is also another word for fairness. Due to their large amount of people, fitting in everybody in one day, may not be an easy feat. If you put everything in one basket, see if the basket will break or not? Fit in means you need to go along with their flows whether you like it or not, because in order to stay the same, everybody must sing in the same tone.

In life it is not about wanting to fit in or to be the same. It is to be able to be yourself, and attract the right group of people. If you need to pretend to be one of them, you will never be accepted by them. Because, if you are fake, they can be even more fake. One day, they will still forsake you.

If you can't fit in, don't fret. It means you are tougher because you have your own style, your own ways, and your own mindset. In this society, the more you can fit in the more fake you will become. Learn to be yourself and see if people can accept you or not. If they can't, you will know it is fake.

Once you feel out of place with them, it is the time you either change groups or learn to be on your own. In order to be happy, you don't stick to toxic people and environment. We are all free to leave if not happy with each other anymore.

14.1.23