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Why are people miserable?

Why you can last longer with friends?

Will female besties settle down?

What does guys means to you?

Cannot fit in in groups?

Why are people miserable?

People are miserable, because they are never contented. Thus, they are easily manipulated and easily feel painful. The more you have, the less you will become, but the less you have, the more you will gain. When a female obtains too many male besties, she will become a middle person for those who have lesser males. When you have something fake by your side, the real, will find it harder to fit in. That's why crowd, always have problems.

People are miserable, when they don't know how to appreciate, and they can't possibly split themselves into half. Do you know...outside world is really dark. If you are feeling miserable now, just think of the war in Russia and Ukraine...it is to let you understand that even though we can't obtain world peace, inner peace is still possible. In order not to feel miserable, learn, to forgive, and move on, they are not your anybody, losing things and people are part of life, or even when you get unfair treatments. They need to treat themselves right first, before treating you correctly.

6.10.22

Why you can last longer with friends?

Fate. Fate have two types. One is lovers and another is desintined to be with you. While you have fate with them, you can eventually last longer with them otherwise people will still come and go.

Fate is not everybody can obtain. Thus there is short term ones as well. Instead of being close... letting them come and go, can see the beauty in them .

Doing business is better in a way at least...there is no attachment. Even if you know them...let them go and they will remember you for life.

Will female besties settle down?

Female besties have very high desire to settle down. In order not to enter besties relationship, it is to first wait for them to settle down. Usually, males can wait longer, but females cannot wait, thus they ended up getting a different partner. In this way, what will happen to besties? Either, they change attidues or continue sharing. If a female didn't wait in love, high chance she will not wait in a relationship. Thus, you only need to accept her way of doing things. Once they got a partner, you can consider, giving him a chance. Even though, the sharing part may still be there. But, could be limited, due to her boyfriend is present. But otherwise, it is to catch your own partner.

By letting guys come and go, means you free them from burdens. And for them to catch their own partners will be easier. While you are not present in their relationship, he has to face her other males alone. Do you know that love is so old fashioned until people even lost their own lives for it. People are very selfish due to the fact that don't wait in love. In this manner, they will catch the same standard themselves. Don't see only one boy and ony girl, who knows there are some others besides them. If you don't have any of them, you only have trust in a relationship. If you have them, it won't be only trust, but compromise.

4.10.22

What does guys means to you?

To me...they are properties... untouchable but can see from afar. If you don't have any guys friends... consider yourself lucky. By not having guys friends, chances of catching a good partner is high. If you have guys friends... do think of their future wives because not everybody is into sharing. By having guys friends, compromise and trust is needed to prolong relationship. In case they found a different partner...and can't spend as much time with you anymore... that's when you can continue to find other males.

In case he loves you...he will wait but otherwise seeing someone else will still be high...can you still go out with other ladies in a relationship? Depends on how you treat love seriously... And weather she is okay with it...good luck.

Cannot fit in in groups?

It is okay, if you feel out of place with them. Even our earth move so groups will change. If you are taking a course, or in school, and cannot fit in, request, your lecturer, you prefer an individual role, or maybe 1 to 1 than a large group of them. If large groups isn't suitable for you, then try to re find another courses, without needing large groups. When you cannot fit in, it is because, not everybody will like you, or you are too dependent on them. Therefore, you sometimes even see people crying outside, due to problems.

Circle are not compulsory in life, just like females need branded, it is a must to be the same as them? So even if you have large groups, can you be certain you won't face rejections? By fitting in, it will means that you may have to go with their flows, otherwise, you may even offend one of them. People need more understanding and more consideration, to stay peace and harmony. Taking up courses is fine, there are short term ones for you to try out, after that, come out and open your own business and work with business partners which will be so much more meaningful. Good luck.

2.10.22

With love, ARIKA ART CASTLE